The way i see the world -part 1-

So here’s the scoop,

As a young man(ok I’m still a young man, but back when I was younger) people would talk a lot of shit to me, about various things, “get the fuck out of my way.. Bitch” just because I didn’t move out of the thug’s royal fucking path (which was the middle 6 feet of a 10 foot corridor. I never had many friends that were my own age.(to which my mom said “your too mature for them” whenever I would come home crying or upset). But still, I never knew how or why SO many of us(EVEN ME!!) treat each other with such unnecessary disrespect even before we know that person’s name! And it wasn’t even just Newport, Oregon(where I grew up). Its everywhere! From the television we watch, to the magazines we read, to the way we create wars with bordering nations because we disagree with their POLITICS!?

The way I see it, Politics is a word used to describe another word…. OVER-COMPLICATION!
The human race didn’t start out this way mind you.. Whether or not we came from fish, monkeys, or aliens(lets hope that’s the case because I’m ashamed if I came from such a beautiful planet just to help destroy it slowly but surely), we were a peaceful society(s) killing only what we needed to for US to survive. How did we start out so simple and healthy, so a civilization that actually pays ANY attention to Miley Syrus and JUSTIN BIEBER!!!??? And after watching these people embarrass our entire social structure, we talk shit about them with our family and friends… AND THEN WE TALK SHIT BEHIND EACHOTHER’S BACKS WHEN THEY LEAVE THE ROOM!!

What is wrong with us? Its disgusting. I often say that I would rather spend a day with a girl, than with a guy. This is true for so many reasons.. Most of my friends are woman, because I would rather sit around and do art and crafts(that’s my job after all..) than piss around town with a bunch of angry men who’s only satisfaction in life is to buy a big ass car, and to talk about who he wants to fuck… even though he isn’t even having sex with his wife because there’s NO COMMUNICATION in their relationship!!

The world isn’t that hard to coexist in. and I mean that in an extremely broad way. Why do you think men AND woman have such a hard time communicating with each other? Its because not enough people are honest with each other about how they feel. Either because they are too afraid that the person they are talking to will get too freaked out from their honesty and insult them in some “joking” way, to mask the awkward feeling that’s in place of a healthy relationship, or its because we have all grown up (all of the living generations out there and countless more to come) in a world that tells us if your not tough, your nothing, and to hide what you really feel, and to OVER COMPLICATE everything you can to compensate for what your emotional side is lacking. I don’t know if that makes much sense, but it makes the world go around for me.

One thing we can all do in our daily lives, is give somebody a compliment, or better yet, make a gesture of kindness to someone who you haven’t complimented in awhile. Or to a perfect stranger. I think the benefit of the doubt is being forgotten, to not assume that the person walking past you downtown would kill you if they could get away with it, just for your 20 bucks in your wallet, but to assume that they are just like you, trying to keeps food on the table and to live a comfortable and hopefully simple life. There is nothing more valuable than lasting friendship, and you CAN choose your family!

Peace.